Hi my names Lizett, I'm an army girlfriend.
I just wanted to ask you if you are from hawaii or you moved with your husband?
Sorry if it sounds nosy but Im a senior in high school and my boyfriend and I are trying to decide what to do after I graduate because he's going to be deployed and I do want to go to college but when he comes back I want to be with him.
I love your name first of all :)
I am from Hawaii and so is my hubbs. He isn’t active, so it’s not like he had to be stationed anywhere. Your bf is planning on moving after he comes back from deployment? or are you saying you don’t know what college to go to? lol sorry im a tad confused
So, I found out today that this girl in one of my classes is going out with a boy thats deployed. I felt so not-alone! I don’t know her, but I kind of wanted to be like…I know how ya feel girl! (ya know?) It just made me feel a bit better :) Plus I can skype with Jarden until wednesday, so its nice :)
Bleh! I’ve been so annoyed recently…PMS-ing? Maybe. lol but here is just one little topic that annoys me a lot in particular right now:
Girls who always talk about ‘missing’ their boyfriend, when it’s at the point of pathetic-ness. “I didn’t see him ALL day,” or “I can’t hang out with him this weekend!,” … stuff like that. Now I admit, I used to be like that before Jarden joined the military, but now that he’s deployed, IT’S REALLY FRICKEN ANNOYING.
Like, first of all, you sound so needy. Second, I can barely talk/text my husband that much during the day, & this is only his training! When he actually gets to Afghanistan I’m not going to be able to talk to him for weeks on end. Jarden has been gone for about a month, & I miss him, but I know this is nothing. I’ve endured 5 months of not seeing him for basic training, & I’m prepared to do it for about another…10 months or so? It’s just so annoying. You can talk/text your boyfriend, you can skype him, you’ll see him eventually, his life isn’t in danger…all those things aren’t promised to me. So seriously, stop your whining.
-I miss my husband soooo much. So much! He’s so cute :/ I’m really grateful I’m gonna see him in 3 weeks, but I’m gonna have to say goodbye again, and that just makes me more sad. *sigh*
-I’m trying to ignore certain things that are really bugging me right now. I have a problem with letting things go for some reason. I get really attached to people, or really obsess over a situation, and I’m trying to just…..let it all go for good.
-My printer is broken, and that makes me really angry. & I’m in this weird exercise phase, which I like/dislike at the same time.
-My friends seem flake-ish right now, which is REALLY annoying. First of all, I am ALWAYS there for my friends. ALWAYS. Second, I would think that they would be more….’friendly’…during this phase of my life. I mean, my husband is gone for a year for pete’s sake, this isn’t exactly a time to flake out on me.
-I’m really trying not to swear and get back into my devotions and stuff. I miss talking to God everyday and hope to get more dedicated as the time goes by. I also know this will strengthen every aspect of my life, including my marriage :) & The way I look at it, how I always kind of looked at it, I can only really count on my family, God, and my husband. God & family is a given. Jarden (husband) is my BEST friend and he has ALWAYS been there for me :) My friends are pretty awesome too, I love my besties, but their more like 90% dependable, not 100%, ya know? Theres just times (not many, it’s rare) where I really need them, and they aren’t there…
-Thats about it. I don’t really use this as a diary entry, but I feel like venting tonight. & again, I miss my husband. Wahhhh.